Back on the Normandy after the Virmire: Assault mission, follow Paragon conversation paths with Kaidan Alenko.

Save Kaidan Alenko or your relationship will end.

During the Virmire: Assault mission, you'll need to choose to save either Ashley Williams or Kaidan Alenko.

Pick Kaidan Alenko to continue your relationship.

If you've been pursuing Kaidan Alenko and Liara T'Soni, you'll be confronted by them both after a debriefing and told to choose as you can only pursue one main romance.

If you speak to Liara T'Soni after she joins your crew, make sure you tell Kaidan Alenko your relationship with Liara is strictly professional when asked or your relationship with Kaidan will end.

After finishing a primary mission on Feros, Noveria, or Therum, you can discuss the mission with Kaidan Alenko to build your relationship with him.

Reassure them, then speak to them again outside the medical area once you've dealt with Captain Anderson.

After the Prologue, you'll wake in the medical room with Kaidan Alenko at your bedside.

Note that picking Renegade options will cause Ashley to leave, but your relationship with her will continue to the next game.

As you approach the final missions, Ashley Williams will visit your personal quarters and selecting Paragon options will conclude this relationship encounter with a romance cutscene.

Back on the Normandy after the Virmire: Assault mission, follow Paragon conversation paths with Ashley Williams.

Save Ashley Williams or your relationship will end. Pick Ashley Williams to continue your relationship.

If you've been pursuing Ashley Williams and Liara T'Soni, you'll be confronted by them both after a debriefing and told to choose as you can only pursue one main romance.

If you speak to Liara T'Soni after she joins your crew, make sure you tell Ashley Williams your relationship with Liara is strictly professional when asked or your relationship with Ashley will end.

After finishing a primary mission on Feros, Noveria, or Therum, you can discuss the mission with Ashley Williams to build your relationship with her.

After the Prologue, you'll wake in the medical room with Ashley Williams at your bedside.

Main romance option for Male Shepard only

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